remember the last time we got so stressed when our parents compared us to other kids, either to make us feel inferior, or to make them feel superior? now theres another thing that bugs us. will we ever pick up the screwed up parts that make up our parents, along with their good qualities? as what they say, stupid people learn from their own mistakes, smart people learn from others' mistakes.
"will i control my kid so tight, that she'll be living under house arrest for the first 20 years of her life?"
"will i let my kid go out whenever she likes, make any number of boyfriends? but what if she gets pregnant, or takes crack and smokes weed?"
*extreme "what if she gets Bs for this semester test? if she does, i got to find her an additional tuition teacher, plus use my vouchers to buy extra assessment books for O level"
"shes late for dinner. i think shes having a boyfriend. this will not do."
"he's awake at 12am. i'd better call the shrink about it"
im sure these are just some familiar lines to most, either heard or thought or personally experienced.
seriously man, i do not understand, why some mothers are so lax on their kids to the point of delinquency, some (fortunately) like mine, are moderate about their parenting, while some are really extreme (im not refering to anyone in particular =] ) to the point that going out of the house without parents is a rarity, and dating is a sin, and coming home after 10 tantamount to a rebellion.
any ideas on how to convince a stuck-up mum to learn to be confident of, and be (deservingly) more lax on her kid? IM me about it. thanks ah. some first time to request such stuff. ( no tagboard still, i will not allow a channel for people to distract me from my aim, that is my own PARADISE with my girl. xD)
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